Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Bring on the Duchess

So I am 33 and single. I haven't had sex in 11 months, and haven't had it in a committed relationship in ...well years.

So you know how all the dating sites have 3 categories? "Dating" "Relationship" and "Booty Call" or some such equivalent?

Well I've been dipping my toes in the first two categories off and on for a few years now. I don't take it too seriously, but I haven't met with much success on any of the sites I've tried.

So for kicks this weekend I signed up for category 3. You know, the "intimate encounters" or whatever section...

In 5 minutes I got as much response as I generally get in a few months in the other categories.
I sign in and I can easily have about 5 or 6 conversations going with different men within about 10 minutes. I think they smell fresh meat or something.

So this blog? This will be archiving all the action I get on there. Not necessarily that kind of action. But who I meet. Who I even just chat with. And yes, perhaps eventually who I have sex with.

Have I mentioned, 11 months??

Now before anyone thinks that I'm going to cause myself some sort of psychological damage, don't worry. I've given myself all the speeches already.

This is just a non-emotional way to get myself back out there. Maybe I'll have sex, maybe I won't. But these men have seen photos of me, and they've been effusively complimentary. I don't have any nude shots up. Since I'm not model thin, I don't feel confident enough to do so. Yet.

Now, I do have another blog. Some of you may recognize me from there. I'm cool with that if you do. But since my other place is pretty fluffy and G-rated, and to be honest, pretty available for the whole world to find - I thought I would start this new one.

So there's my intro. This may be a brief experiment. But I'm hoping it helps me get my sexy back and start me back on my way to confidence and flirtiness.


Jason X said...

11 months? Holy shit. Yeah, go get some, baby...

I like the idea of chronicling your experiences. Should be a great blog. In fact, push yourself beyond what you might normally do so that we get great content. Yeah, I know, I'm thinking of myself and my own entertainment, but it'll be good for you too. Anyway, sounds like that's what you plan to do anyway. Good luck and have fun...

Aurore said...

I swear I could have written this post, except substitute 11 months with 9.

I look forward to catching up on your exploits.

Good luck!