tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317232246604106872024-02-19T02:32:23.507-06:00Bringing my Sexy BackAll Acts of Love and Pleasure are Acts of the Goddess...The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.comBlogger196125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-713487301827256382013-12-10T20:45:00.001-06:002013-12-10T20:45:27.258-06:00New Address!If I still indeed have any followers - I have changed locales and am back in business. I look forward to seeing you in my new digs: <a href="http://sensualwordsandtouch.wordpress.com/">http://sensualwordsandtouch.wordpress.com/</a><br />xoThe Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-1296098073226128302012-07-22T19:30:00.000-05:002012-07-22T19:30:00.748-05:00GawainI still want him to pin me down and fuck me. I want him to ride me hard, take me like he has no control, no other means of release than to slam his aching cock into my welcoming cunt.<br />After two years this has not changed. My fantasies, nameless strangers, Hollywood pretty boys, hot men at work, on the street - all have faded into a vague recollection of what used to inspire my writing here.<br />Now it is about him. His body. His hands. His tattoos. His enormous cock that took months for me to accommodate completely.<br />
It's almost alarming to me that someone can take over my desire, my daydreams, my nights so utterly. Perhaps it's the distance - the fact that I cannot have him whenever I please.<br />I've worn out my favourite vibrator with slick anticipation of our next encounter. Starting off into space at work, practically feeling his fingers slipping into my panties, flicking my clit as he pulls them down. Willing him to appear before me, bending me over my desk and slamming into me.<br />He wants to hear about my fantasies - that I want to service him in front of a group of other men. To have him watch while I suck on his friends cock then fuck me from behind. His thrusts shoving his friends cock deeper into my throat, deliciously gagging me while I suck and moan.<br />
I can tell him anything - how I fellated another woman's husband, about the positions I fucked the man I was with while we were on a "break," how many cocks I've seen, touched, licked and ridden.<br />
I want him here now - pulling my hair, his tongue between my legs, grinding his beautiful cock into my throbbing cunt...The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-4511787481133415742012-07-07T00:48:00.000-05:002012-07-07T00:48:03.217-05:00So This is What it Means to Be a Graduate StudentSo this is what I've done the past two years:<br /><br />
Started a graduate program.<br />
Met a man with whom I have regular sex.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My new pinup girl outfit - I am dying to find the <br />time to actually go out and wear it.<br /></td></tr>
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Made out with a girl.<br />
Made out with another girl.<br />
Made out with yet another girl, which included second base.<br />
Had sex with a different man.<br />
Went back to regular sex with the original man.<br />
Took a course on pornography and erotica.<br />
Fellated another woman's husband.<br />Went to a sex club.<br />
Went to a bigger sex club.<br />Went on a trip with a hot sex blogger.<br />Had two men show us their penises (penii?) outside of a club.<br />Met many nude models.<br />
Am now considering joining the nude models by doing my own photo session to be posted on their website.<br /><br />
I have less than a month to go before my degree is completed.<br />And then? I will learn to write for fun again. I miss this place.<br />
Will be back soon.The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-83876620701996570792011-02-01T12:15:00.001-06:002011-04-27T09:18:45.901-05:00When in Rome II<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgazKonLK_iEF0Ci2pTRZRQbGeP88fCkk-rXx7ro42bOrdetna8aeDj0mML271JldTcm3xn1CPa-3MTSB4MrNWCxBjPEKkeZskb9F7zd6vZEKFZd6A-zXQ4wbrhoBQtWaPMH9BhFhVoxww/s1600/274415_res1_HotWomenKissing.jpeg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgazKonLK_iEF0Ci2pTRZRQbGeP88fCkk-rXx7ro42bOrdetna8aeDj0mML271JldTcm3xn1CPa-3MTSB4MrNWCxBjPEKkeZskb9F7zd6vZEKFZd6A-zXQ4wbrhoBQtWaPMH9BhFhVoxww/s320/274415_res1_HotWomenKissing.jpeg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5567074989134293394" border="0" /></a><br />Now, in the spirit of full disclosure, I didn't completely strip. I was wearing just the cutest little matching bra and panty set, so I mostly ignored the (very ugly) towels supplied and strutted around in that.<br /><br />So, Kimberley, Topaz, The Victim and I crawled up onto a bed close to the entrance and looked around in curiosity. Dimly lit, many beds, water, condoms, discreet security walking through, and couples fucking. It was amazing. I was genuinely impressed with how...professional and kind of classy it was.<br /><br />And Skippy. Oh Skippy. Stroking mine and Topaz's legs and taking it like a champ when we made it clear that neither of us had any intention of fucking him tonight. (Although Topaz implied that I should give him a mercy fuck. No thank you.)<br /><br />And then I saw him. This dark chiseled specimen wandering around just kind of watching everyone. The girls (and The Victim) all told me that I should go "talk" to him - but I was temporarily intimidated by the prospect. Kimberley was increasinly engaged with The Victim and eventually Topaz and I decided to head back out. Kimberley handed me her shoes and her bra for the road and off we went, leaving Skippy behind (I kid you not) high fiving the fucking couples for a job well done.<br /><br />I mentioned to her on the way out that we should have made out just to mess with him and she said that she would have been up for it. This was good to know.<br /><br />Security stopped us as we were dressing to ask about Skippy. It seems that men should be attached to someone in order to be back there. Apparently voyeurism isn't permitted? (Which even now makes me wonder what Chiseled Specimen was doing back there, as he appeared alone). We declared that Skippy was certainly not with us, and gave him leave to do whatever he wanted with him (although secretly hoping that he wouldn't kick him out, since that would mean he would come find us).<br /><br />Another drink later and Topaz was catigating me for my slut fail moment. Not any worse than I was castigating myself of course. With a shot of liquid courage, and the threat of last call looming we decided to head back to at least proposition Chiseled Specimen so the night wouldn't be a total waste (for me anyways).<br /><br />So back we went, undressed again and met Chiseled Specimen in the hallway. I admit, up close he wasn't quite the specimen that he had seemed from a distance, but I plunged ahead anyhow. I said something inane and he invited the two of to the back. Topaz trailing along in support, knowing I wasn't quite up for going it on my own. I confess, to me he seemed a lot more interested in her than in my charms, and who could blame him, but he certainly didn't seem turned off by my attentions nonetheless.<br /><br />Topaz, however is much more perceptive to men's signals than I, and clearly noticed that he was much more interested in watching than participating. Before I knew it, she was straddling me and had her luscious tongue in my mouth. And my darling readers, that was the highlight of the night for me. Topaz. Her lips, her tongue, her breasts and her body. They changed all my perceptions on being with a woman.<br /><br />At that point I couldn't have cared less about Chiseled Specimen. She could have gone on kissing me all night. I craved more and more as the moments passed. I could see Kimberley watching us, and the Specimen was rapt. I touched her breasts and could feel myself heating up and my breathing increase...<br /><br />Skippy showed up. Commentating. High Fiving.<br /><br />Fuck.<br /><br />Both of us started laughing and that was it. We tried to resume, but really? The moment was gone.<br /><br />It was the end of the night anyhow.<br /><br />We all headed out, got dressed and met up in the ladies room to debrief. It was a bizarre, hilarious, fun and profound evening. One that re-programmed some of my own proclivities and fantasies. For that, I have Topaz to thank. And Kimberley for her sense of wild liberation - if she hadn't been so carefree and open to the experience, my life would not have been so affected.<br /><br />I can't wait to go back.The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-84148224331525034262011-01-28T12:01:00.002-06:002011-01-28T17:38:08.270-06:00When in Rome I<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQA8IQgXXdS5XkwZFZuXanF7_S8AL4u9xUIKVnPyw-DKzyDb1qQDbWg74bqPxppo0WvOxdh-Arql_DhyFJrK0lf5qqhq1tDMerxrAnPMh0t_vl5JQ12u0pvC7iNThrN73KWEHTmsC8zFo/s1600/NovemberDecember.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 246px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQA8IQgXXdS5XkwZFZuXanF7_S8AL4u9xUIKVnPyw-DKzyDb1qQDbWg74bqPxppo0WvOxdh-Arql_DhyFJrK0lf5qqhq1tDMerxrAnPMh0t_vl5JQ12u0pvC7iNThrN73KWEHTmsC8zFo/s320/NovemberDecember.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5567385191916665922" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxyxy9UgjKYiSy9VDsEs-UiU4991L-AN-wvRiO9SV3w96hubMJ28yYdwYXfdWXdF6VwWf1Rg7HotMReCDtPiy2ENDsQtyAl9BnTCM-b8URvLlxhDKOTgFbupykgwo3k9AYVS_hy7JbsE4/s1600/NovemberDecember+2010+001.JPG"><br /></a><br /><a href="http://yourerrantwife.blogspot.com/2011/01/swinging-with-bloggers-part-1-three.html">Kimberley</a> and <a href="http://topaz-gemology.blogspot.com/2010/12/sex-blogger-night-out.html">Topaz</a> have already introduced this tale with their typical sexy style, so I won't bore you with too many details...However we've all decided to finish the story together, so when you're done here, make sure you head over <a href="http://yourerrantwife.blogspot.com/">there</a> and <a href="http://topaz-gemology.blogspot.com/?zx=98478063ee46eb27">there </a>to hear their perspectives if you haven't already....<br /><br />And don't forget to stop by on Tuesday when we post the finales....<br /><br />So the teeniest little g-string of an intro before we move onto the dirty finale:<br />I was sent to Toronto for a conference, which <span style="font-style: italic;">obviously</span> meant I had to catch up with my girls. I have to re-iterate - I absolutely <span style="font-style: italic;">adore </span>these women, and let's not forget the delicious <a href="http://dangerousliaisons-aurore.blogspot.com/?zx=b7b784006585b4b">Aurore</a> too. Sadly the only thing preventing the weekend from going down in history as utter wanton perfection was her absence from our exploits.<br /><br />So while I extended my weekend by an extra day to misbehave with my ladies, unfortunately Topaz only had the Friday evening free. I resigned myself to an incoherent session the next morning and thanked the goddess that my boss had already left...<br /><br />Blah blah primping, blah blah dinner. The only bit of random trivia I will add to what you've already read? Stay up stockings? Great for posing, seducing and sitting. Not so much for walking, and definitely not dancing. So the girls were kind enough to let me walk back to the hotel after dinner to change into something a bit tighter and slinkier (and practical-er = not falling down) to match my own little black dress and off we went...<br /><br />In we strutted, armed with fake names (let's face it, "Duchess" just won't do in the real world, so I went with my standby, "Belinda") and prepared for an anthropological sexperience.<br /><br />And as Kimberley mentioned? Lame and potentially deflating when we first walked in. Very sparse. And greeted by Skippy. Who was indeed preoccupied with offering us shooters (Lovelies, I am not a huge drinker, so the shooter that I loved back in my undergrad days? Apparently it did not evolve with my supposed "sophisticated" palate. No more Mexican Snowshoes in the Duchess's future). Skippy was also obsessed with whether we had been there before and our marital statuses. However, (dork though I may be) we were much cooler than him for our first time there, and I do not believe for a moment that it was his first time there in 10 years as he claimed.<br /><br />Sadly, Skippy seemed attached to us, and while Kimberley quickly spotted her potential victim, Topaz and I were far too polite to ditch him, and it was certainly too empty to slink off unnoticed. So, we decided to make the best of it and make him entertain us. We sent him off to dance and admired Kimberley in action.<br /><br />However it wasn't long before she skipped back to gleefully tell us about "the back." It seems we were missing out on the real action. Obviously that was where we had to be. So, ditching our drinks we queued up to head around the corner. In retrospect it must have been a bit of an amusing sight to see the pack of us all lining up like tourists to see what there was to see. (Of course with Skippy in tailing after us like a puppy).<br /><br />I was closer to the back of the group, so suddenly all I saw was Kimberley and her victim taking off their clothes in the locker room.<br /><br />?<br /><br />I looked at Topaz confusedly. Did I miss something?<br /><br />Yes, as it happens I did. One has to store all their things in a locker and enter the back in a state of dishabille. Topaz and I looked at each other in consideration. But Kimberley was just so nonchalant about it, with a quizzical "what's the hold-up?" look on her face so we just laughed and followed her example. What else was I there for after all? When in Rome...The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-18524441133204091572011-01-15T01:06:00.001-06:002011-01-15T01:08:57.302-06:00Exploration<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiF0BJeRSsbL1WqyovoSofWN8LzagzZ1y2hzkcWIVDLfZBoZg_NlDB9ZsLllt5nvMC6Kj5WHm_1shxLuFOME5HKpLOlCPp78SDLNN3jKyCJewM7tmUP-zYc5yeoi1GJDWzygKELFLXD7VQ/s1600/glamour-sensual-erotic-art-27.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiF0BJeRSsbL1WqyovoSofWN8LzagzZ1y2hzkcWIVDLfZBoZg_NlDB9ZsLllt5nvMC6Kj5WHm_1shxLuFOME5HKpLOlCPp78SDLNN3jKyCJewM7tmUP-zYc5yeoi1GJDWzygKELFLXD7VQ/s320/glamour-sensual-erotic-art-27.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5562306086574778402" /></a><br /><br /><br />She had very specific ideas on what her fantasy sex partner would comprise of – ideas she was more than happy to share with the rest of the world through her writing. However in retrospect, this man, this fantasy partner, this ideal, was more of an amalgam of body parts, crafted more as a concept in functionality than as an actual person. This fantasy had no face, no form, and no personality. It had hands, a tongue and lips, a cock and an unquestioning will to please her. No man she’d met had ever come close to approaching what she was looking for, so no trace of past lover touched this fictional amalgam. An amalgam of body parts, vignettes and unfulfilled wishes. <br /><br />Then she met him. A man truly surreal in his seeming perfection. She was shocked at how precisely he satisfied her unspoken desires. Without prompting he demanded what he wanted from her – he verbally wooed her with his lust and fantasies for her and she was intoxicated by the promise of such an ideal match. Yet, she was also relieved when she found that he had some proclivities, some lusts that she didn’t share, or had never considered. For him to match her too perfectly would have been unnerving – like he was indeed an unreal fancy – ephemeral, illusory…untouchable. <br />Suddenly her fantasy had a face, a body and its own demands. Unexpectedly, this didn’t take away from its appeal. It simply added nuance and more complex dimension to her imaginings. It pushed her to consider scenarios she’d never encountered. Scenarios both frightening and alluring. Scenarios which forced her to explore her own liberality and comfort zones. <br /><br />And the reality of being with him – of having him use her in any way he pleased, and being open to hearing what she wanted in return without shock or judgement. To be confronted with the reality of what one had previously only fantasized about is more disconcerting than one might expect. How often in life do we ever really get what we want? <br /><br />She had occasionally doubted herself – that her own, seeming open-mindedness and adventurousness might actually be a façade. An identity that she wanted to play at, but could never actually adopt with any seriousness or ease. However her appetite has now been whetted, and she found myself craving more. She wanted to explore her sexual identity with more depth and urgency now than she had before. To indulge in both his requests and her own fantasies with more eagerness than she would have thought. <br /><br />She wanted to taste a woman’s tongue again, suck on her breasts, explore each other’s bodies and feel each other’s heat, wetness and involuntary pressing and writhing against each other. She wanted to suck on a man`s cock while he watched – to perform for him, make him hard and have him fuck her while she still had the other man in her mouth. She wanted to bring him to the sex club that she had explored – she couldn’t get the thought of fucking him for an audience out of her head; nothing even elaborate or particularly kinky, the exhibitionism of it was enough. <br /><br />She was distracted by this complex sexual “awakening.” This new partner and these preliminary new experiences didn’t scare her – they tempted her. They teased her to do more, explore more, imagine more. She wanted to do this beside him, with him. Some experiences were best shared – for and with each other. Others were for her or him alone. She didn’t want to limit him in his own explorations or curiosities. Surely they couldn’t fulfill each other’s every kink or wish – but to guide and experience and learn with each other – the intimacy and decadent indulgence of it was delirium-creating in and of itself….The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-10842061369986829762010-09-12T21:19:00.004-05:002010-09-12T22:37:27.873-05:00InsignificantMore than one ex-boyfriend has called me an ice princess. I can't stand completely immersing myself in someone else's life, nor can I handle someone constantly calling me and wanting to see me every single day.<br /><br />I considered myself an intelligent independent woman. The ad I posted online indicated that I wanted a life that was separate, but compatible. However, I made it clear: I didn't want to be neglected, and this wasn't an invitation for us to take each other for granted. I just didn't want to be smothered yo.<br /><br />He was perfect on screen. Witty. Intelligent. Quirky. Sexually open.<br /><br />He came over early on, took control, did things to my body I had never imagined, and had me constantly distracted with the thought of being with him. Riding him. Having him take me. Being his slave. Anything he wanted. I told him I was his toy to do with as he chose.<br /><br />I brought him to my office - greeted him outside in a little dress and no panties as instructed. He fucked me a few different ways, and made us late to pick up my bff's husband while he took me one more time.<br /><br />Even now? I want him. I want him at my door, not talking. Just naked. I want him to jerk my head back, slip his fingers in my panties and rub my clit. To want to rape him - to rip off his clothes, damage them as he's done to mine. To ride him until his eyes roll back and he's incoherent.<br /><br />But the neglect? It was there. Oh it was there. To end up in this impossible situation where I can't ask him for time, or communication or sex. To be in some sort of undefined thing where I get absolutely nothing, but to feel like a burdensome pet that he offers a few scraps to when it's somewhat convenient for him.<br /><br />Humiliating. The core of that word? Humility. I have learned to be humble. To know what it is to be absolutely nothing to someone. To have so little of their regard that they can't even be bothered to fuck me, when they know I'm perfectly willing.<br /><br />And even worse? To know that I'm still willing. To be still wet and throbbing for him. To have the memory of what he's done to me. To imagine the potential of what we could have done. What we said we would do.<br /><br />Nothing in life comes with a guarantee. But I feel cheated. Like I had this sensual gift dangled in front of me. Taunting me. Teasing me with it's tantalizing closeness. And then to have it taken away with no explanation, and such coldness.<br /><br />To feel cheap and used voluntarily? Can be delicious. But this? To feel so utterly insignificant?<br /><br />Now, I just feel thoroughly ashamed for allowing myself to feel this way.The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-3014273755585392832010-08-04T21:45:00.004-05:002010-08-04T22:12:15.710-05:00This and That and the Duchess's Voice<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLbebX_uR4Sz3qE0KPVRZHaj5TzGoMVn5b6JftXho2UVqkovvIVNqqPlxSbDRdh6UPrCNA2C7Jc11MPRZeORIs7wnxGSD1qtckLdR7RuXl9yI2mHL64p4VRv_GP8xhm0pa88ZCyDk2sNM/s1600/erotic+art.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 311px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLbebX_uR4Sz3qE0KPVRZHaj5TzGoMVn5b6JftXho2UVqkovvIVNqqPlxSbDRdh6UPrCNA2C7Jc11MPRZeORIs7wnxGSD1qtckLdR7RuXl9yI2mHL64p4VRv_GP8xhm0pa88ZCyDk2sNM/s320/erotic+art.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501758295030306386" border="0" /></a><br />"Would you like a pillow?" I shook my head no, not thinking that my knees would be screaming in agony after about 5 minutes of kneeling in front of him on the hardwood floor.<br /><br />I've <a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2009/05/on-blowjobs-warning-somewhat-of-bitchy.html">mentioned before</a> that I once upon a time I had a boyfriend compare me to another girl in the blowjob department, setting me on a quest to provide the ultimate experience in oral sexuality, hopefully preventing this recipient's mind from straying to other women.<br /><br />I'm not often competitive, as I find it often leads to negativity and obsession, but in this case, I think it's a good thing. I'm performing a service after all.<br /><br />As a result, I've been told that I give decent head. Occasionally it's even been assumed that I really enjoy doing it - which must be why I excel. Enjoy it? Maybe. It's gratifying to feel that kind of power in my hands/mouth. Especially when the man is vocal with his appreciation. Silence my dears? Is not golden in these scenarios.<br /><br />But I don't love it and crave it the way some other women do. As previously mentioned, I sometimes view it as a gift that I'm oh-so-generously bestowing on the man in question. Often it's because sex is not on the table that night/day/lunch hour - why should the man suffer because I'm crampy/having a fat day/too sore from the night before?<br /><br />I've noticed that men rarely have such compunctions. They will cheerfully drop their pants when asked - especially for head. Why should they hesitate - they don't have to do any work, and we (the women) are not asking to be gratified in any way?<br /><br />I'm also neutral on receiving oral sex. I tend to be somewhat fussy, and if I don't feel 100% fresh/trimmed/comfortable it can just be distracting and I feel like I have to perform. It defeats the purpose of the man's efforts. Now that being said, I also receive the best, and frequently the fastest, orgasms from it. It's a dilemma to be sure.<br /><br />Now this new man? He's been quite appreciative of my efforts- as mentioned in my last post, he's quite creative and open-minded. Although I'm sometimes concerned that our kinks don't entirely mesh, it's a challenge I'm cheerfully willing to work on though, as I suspect once we've ironed out the wrinkles, the results will be truly mind-blowing.<br /><br />It's rare to meet someone so completely aware of their sexual needs and wants, yet not so selfish about them that they ignore what's going on with their partner. I tend to kind of zone out sometimes- not in a negative way, but in a losing-myself-in-the-sensations-of-my-body kind of way. I find it challenging to maintain focus and eye contact with my partner as I'm in the mist of coital bliss. This won't do with him however - he wants me to be <span style="font-style: italic;">with</span> him the entire time. Focused eye contact, knowing that I'm sharing an experience with him. It's occasionally disconcerting, but gratifying and alluring as well. It forces me to be more present and aware of my partner. I hadn't thought of myself as a selfish lover before - I would cheerfully give up my orgasm for the sake of theirs - but this has given me a new perspective on the matter.<br /><br />And the dirty talk and fantasizing? Oh my darlings - for someone who delights in <span style="font-style: italic;">writing</span> dirty, it's an entirely different thing to walk the talk. (Talk the talk? Walk the walk? Talk the walk? What <span style="font-style: italic;">is </span>the proper expression anyhow?). You'd think that the words would just flow out of me like the juices down my legs. That my needs and desires have just been begging to be heard - just waiting for a live audience to pay homage to my erotic expression.<br /><br />Not so much. I occasionally find myself wondering how he'd react to a dirty email. I imagine he might enjoy it - however not as a replacement for the eroticism of the moment. He wants to hear my fantasies. He wants them described in delicious detail. He wants to know what I've done, what I've wished done to me, and what I plan to do with/to him and with others. It's intoxicating and terrifying.<br /><br />Maybe I should practice in front of a mirror...The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-22340854600612752692010-07-19T22:07:00.004-05:002010-07-20T21:27:49.589-05:00Surreal<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4W7JLirdZwFcXTWKx2jVZgDi7mxRz_oZREUzE6PDunZLLRJcEVYLAqy73rifhLlVrwV2j77u1FedUSbteb_TN125B5ic0WOvOMxAMIN2S3EGaajQ-v91yfINam6lOmUP8zYLAOhDVFvM/s1600/swinging.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 245px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4W7JLirdZwFcXTWKx2jVZgDi7mxRz_oZREUzE6PDunZLLRJcEVYLAqy73rifhLlVrwV2j77u1FedUSbteb_TN125B5ic0WOvOMxAMIN2S3EGaajQ-v91yfINam6lOmUP8zYLAOhDVFvM/s320/swinging.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5495833426080824322" border="0" /></a><br />He yanked my hair back, forcing me to look into his eyes - a move that I will forever find arousing no matter what the circumstances - the harder and more abrupt the better. "Tell me you're my plaything. Tell me I can do whatever I want to you." As his hands explored my body, I found myself wanting exactly that - to give myself to him completely. To offer myself as a gift to be unwrapped, begging to be used and enjoyed. Used until I was spent. Used until there was nothing left of me to give.<br /><br />He was like something I had created - occasionally disconcerting me with his words and actions. How could he so completely know what was in my head - was I that dull and predictable? Were my fantasies more prosaic than I thought? Or had I actually found someone so utterly in tune with my body and desires that he just <span style="font-style: italic;">seemed </span>surreal?<br /><br />I straddled him on my couch - he bit my neck and ground his straining cock against my increasingly wet pussy. Is there anything more intoxicating than to know you're responsible for that growing heat and hardness? I could feel him through the thin wisp of fabric - so many sensations at once made it a challenge to concentrate. His hands running down my ribs and back, his tongue in my mouth, then teeth on my nipples, all while he slowly rubbed his cock against me...<br /><br />"Tell me your fantasies - what do you really want that you've never told anyone? That you never dreamed would actually be fulfilled?" I told him about my plush carpeted <a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2009/03/unfulfilled-fantasies.html">orgy fantasy</a>, assuming that he would simply purr in my ear that it sounded hot, and resume his ministrations. This was a mildly risqué fantasy to share, but not so shocking that it couldn't be forgiven if he wasn't into it.<br /><br />I underestimated him.<br /><br />He wanted to join me in the fantasy. He wanted the lights kept on, with me blindfolded if I wished. He embellished and elaborated it a bit- making me less selfish, and the entire scenario more consuming. He wanted to watch as I sucked on one cock while being fucked by another. He wants to join in while I get used and taken by a variety of men. I could feel him get harder as we talked about it - his hands all over me as he described what would happen.<br /><br />I realized that he was serious - he wasn't just role-playing or humoring me. My lusts made him as hot as they did me. It was a fine line we were walking, neither of us wanting to be a submissive, yet one of us had to give a little. My <a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2009/12/accepting-applications.html">wish for a slave</a> might be an indulgence that he would play at occasionally, but he was not one to be dominated. This was a man that I could tell my darkest carnal desires to. A man that wouldn't be shocked or turned off - indeed, the more I shared, the more he would give in return.<br /><br />This was a man who knew what he wanted, and was more than happy to take me along on a sensual wanton ride. A man who would take me to the riverbank beside my condo and fuck me on the picnic table there. A man who would take me to a park, pin me against a tree and slam into me. A man who would come to my office after work, bend me over my desk and take me <a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2009/07/from-behind.html">from behind</a>. A man who would take me to the ballet, insisting I wear a dress with no panties, then fuck me in the car in the parking lot before going home. A man who will take me to a party, then pull me into a bedroom or even a corner and fuck me regardless of who might see us.<br /><br />Is he for real? Sometimes I can't believe that I might actually be able to keep him long enough to have these fantasies and plans fulfilled. Men like this don't actually exist. Intelligent, creative, strong, sexy men with bodies that beg to be worshiped? I'm convinced that one day soon I'm going to wake up and realize that this all was, in fact, in my head. But in the meantime, I'm going to enjoy the ride...The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-32967114634768981282010-07-15T22:20:00.002-05:002010-07-15T22:22:41.122-05:00May I Seduce You - Group Post July 2010 EditionNo time this month my darlings to participate - but please check out the rest of the group writing on something deliciously "Off Limits..."<br /><br /><a href="http://www.advizortoall.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">www.advizortoall.blogspot.com</a>.<br /><a href="http://www.ronjazz.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">www.ronjazz.blogspot.com</a><br /><a href="http://topaz-gemology.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">http://topaz-gemology.<wbr>blogspot.com</a><br /><a href="http://mygrayline.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Http://mygrayline.blogspot.com</a><br /><a href="http://agirlsgottahaveoptions.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">http://agirlsgottahaveoptions.<wbr>blogspot.com</a><br /><a href="http://insatiabear.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">http://insatiabear.blogspot.<wbr>com</a><br /><br />I'll be happy to join you next month when our regular hostess <a href="http://yourerrantwife.blogspot.com/">Kimberly</a> is back...<br /><br />Hope you're having a great summer!The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-41970793547517180302010-07-02T14:18:00.016-05:002010-07-11T03:00:45.595-05:00Latex: In Photo Essay FormatLatex.<br /><br />Generally, that word brings condoms to mind. At least to me. I can't speak for all you dirty darlings.<br /><br />However, once the sexy Nicole of <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/">AdultSexToys.com</a> sent me a super hot set of latex <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/erotic-clothing-latex-outfits/Black-Latex-Gauntlets_PD3417-00">gloves</a> and <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/erotic-clothing-latex-outfits/Black-Latex-Stockings_PD3401-00">leggings</a> - all my perceptions changed. The photo of the model looked fantastic - all slick and shiny and skin tight. Who wouldn't want to jump me when they see me squeaking across the room in these things?<br /><br />But of course we need to bear in mind that the sexiness that the Duchess would <span style="font-style: italic;">like </span>to exude, and the dorkiness that she actually possesses sometimes creates painfully hilarious conflicts.<br /><br />Now there are a few things to bear in mind when considering latex (Rubba) clothing.<br /><br />1. It doesn't generally arrive all slick and shiny like the photo. To get this effect, you'll want to grab some "<a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/search/Rubba-Glow-1-5-oz_PD3422-00">Rubba Glow</a>" as well. It's only $6.25 and really makes a big difference, as otherwise the product just looks kind of dull and almost...dusty.<br />2. It is not easy to get latex on. You're going to want to powder yourself up, or maybe oil?<br />3. I don't recommend this unless you are VERY confident in your body, and are relatively slim and hairless. Based on the challenges I had getting these products on, I wouldn't reccommend it for the faint of heart either.<br /><br />And now? A pictorial journey of the Duchess's adventure with latex clothing:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieGTyczMt7vHzrDxvC4bNZRCzdd7-9VCzXs7_bkUxaYc1u2xY_bjLbrvAs7FCAVLliF5vvKxi7W9Fsj3M6R3Jd9ItgO6Dm9nk79oAs9TA5Vy1sDa9pQOwntNX9jMB1TsBOUpk4SvxLhu0/s1600/glove+pulling.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 160px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieGTyczMt7vHzrDxvC4bNZRCzdd7-9VCzXs7_bkUxaYc1u2xY_bjLbrvAs7FCAVLliF5vvKxi7W9Fsj3M6R3Jd9ItgO6Dm9nk79oAs9TA5Vy1sDa9pQOwntNX9jMB1TsBOUpk4SvxLhu0/s320/glove+pulling.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489399648810357650" border="0" /></a><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">So these are the gloves, and as you can see, I couldn't get them on all the wa</span></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">y. I have little wee hands, so clearly I just didn't powder myself sufficiently. </span></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br /><br /></span><a style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVA8wcMq1U2IaW9PgeZ-laut3VuwAzurfrPS2f-YgTpnhLzrR1JMSorQXGwPHWaFb_gAQjvMeZ1igrz_-vuP6gqtZjWoLIg5EQBbEgQgxFSSPHgF_WoV7e0nQhLh80gJRbyb93iJkFqyo/s1600/June+2010+023.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVA8wcMq1U2IaW9PgeZ-laut3VuwAzurfrPS2f-YgTpnhLzrR1JMSorQXGwPHWaFb_gAQjvMeZ1igrz_-vuP6gqtZjWoLIg5EQBbEgQgxFSSPHgF_WoV7e0nQhLh80gJRbyb93iJkFqyo/s200/June+2010+023.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489401805690922466" border="0" /></a><a style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEge9q4jgVSbLSfjHLPNjy8Fl_lZ55hj8siR4LdV-rRtV79nn49O6MNty15ZJsrc63f0ggk68eaiNHqvxCLTj_1B9CsnVSmP1Luti5axl7HxNEFanRokwxujDSvLJg99XJlV3aVilQ1NsDs/s1600/leg+pulling.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 195px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEge9q4jgVSbLSfjHLPNjy8Fl_lZ55hj8siR4LdV-rRtV79nn49O6MNty15ZJsrc63f0ggk68eaiNHqvxCLTj_1B9CsnVSmP1Luti5axl7HxNEFanRokwxujDSvLJg99XJlV3aVilQ1NsDs/s200/leg+pulling.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489401672393936418" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">Now for the leggings. Same difficulty as the gloves, so I </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">really</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"> powdered myself. I was </span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">determined</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"> to make this work.</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">And?</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">Success!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br /></span><a style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj08p7nKRC_hmmZX5yUGubvwu2RFgxxy4CN4aq-kfMfvAy32eeKcNnOQIbrF6pImLIXjME_JwcP6DhZpoeB59CRY70YIU9uUVlBdYxIn1BLCIc7n82rtgg_WRt42fh4w-ZY1Rxx21rvVhQ/s1600/legging+shoe.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 140px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj08p7nKRC_hmmZX5yUGubvwu2RFgxxy4CN4aq-kfMfvAy32eeKcNnOQIbrF6pImLIXjME_JwcP6DhZpoeB59CRY70YIU9uUVlBdYxIn1BLCIc7n82rtgg_WRt42fh4w-ZY1Rxx21rvVhQ/s200/legging+shoe.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489402861554152226" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br /><br /></span><a style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi0iKnMYPQjsGxdUYjyXWukS6r0aXgKzDQuVn_Rm-CeC3EGl1sRW1wc2BkpJZICSpOpAVO3I4c_sQNYZVCR2KGuRMzj8BtwBMpX12J2iP5P_0WvhSxwcltu8nTO9IHDwaRkxvaNZmW4L2o/s1600/legging+on%21.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 140px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi0iKnMYPQjsGxdUYjyXWukS6r0aXgKzDQuVn_Rm-CeC3EGl1sRW1wc2BkpJZICSpOpAVO3I4c_sQNYZVCR2KGuRMzj8BtwBMpX12J2iP5P_0WvhSxwcltu8nTO9IHDwaRkxvaNZmW4L2o/s200/legging+on%21.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489402744439364962" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br /><br /><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size:78%;" ><br /><br />I love those shoes. Except when I trip in public in them. That's just embarassing.</span><br /><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">Then came the task of getting the leggings off. I think that could be worked into foreplay right?</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">Cause I know my bff enjoyed herself when yanking those things off of me. I'm sure a date would too...</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204);"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjAnC0qwkgnCGvemlza19djxb_ha6J-tG4F61gCvWfTQuMbE0gg_zR7DQj_Ef6wQ7ubse2go2tiQNipen4UEBCLi9r18VjsfIu8B6F8uxGKWcz_hh2QWdhf5pC-Kf0wIgcJ-Cc6SlGxXzQ/s1600/June+2010+030.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjAnC0qwkgnCGvemlza19djxb_ha6J-tG4F61gCvWfTQuMbE0gg_zR7DQj_Ef6wQ7ubse2go2tiQNipen4UEBCLi9r18VjsfIu8B6F8uxGKWcz_hh2QWdhf5pC-Kf0wIgcJ-Cc6SlGxXzQ/s200/June+2010+030.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489403021641482898" border="0" /></a></span></span></span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">So what did I think of this overall?</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">I like the idea of latex. 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This opened up the opportunity for the occasional visit, which gradually grew more comfortable and frequent. They both had work, so often these visits would equate to no more than him bringing over his laptop and working beside her while she studied. Her office doubled as a guest room, so often this was done with both of them sprawled out on the spare bed.<br /><br />It was quiet and serene, and soon he found himself drifting off into a doze. He opened his eyes with a start to discover that she too had curled up beside him to rest. Their bodies weren’t touching, but this was a technicality of mere inches.He gazed at her form beside him realizing that he had never really taken the time to appreciate it before. Her curves and skin were luminous, and he was shocked to see that she had a tattoo. He wondered what else was hidden in her depths and was struck with an impulse to explore her.<br /><br />He hesitantly reached over and traced his finger down her arm, following a trail down her ribs, hips and thigh. It seemed he heard the softest of sighs escape her and was she suddenly a few millimeters closer to him? His hand grazed the back of her knee and it seemed that her back arched slightly, thrusting her pelvis even closer to him. His hands moved back up her leg, his thumb gently massaging the inside of her thigh.<br /><br />Was she actually asleep? Her mouth opened slightly, but her breathing was still even. He wondered what form his caresses took in her dreams. Was he inside her head, or was some other man touching her? Still, she didn’t gasp awake in shock, slapping him for his presumption, so emboldened, he continued.<br /><br />Perhaps this was a violation of trust. Perhaps this would be the end of their visits. But it seemed that she was tempting him. Teasing him with her body and her skin and her accessibility. He was prepared to deal with the consequences of his actions, no matter what form they took once she awoke.<br /><br />A scant inch of skin was showing between her tank top and shorts. A tantalizing glimpse of her stomach just begging to be touched and licked. He grazed a tickling stroke before slipping his hand beneath her shirt. It was merely her abdomen – nothing that couldn’t be seen in public, but the fact that his hand was under her clothing, uninvited was so much more arousing...<br /><br />He took a deep breath and lowered his hand. Beneath the waistband of her shorts. Slipping into her panties to touch her hot wet pussy. His other hand reached into his own pants to grip his straining cock. He could hear her breathing increase and knew that she was no longer asleep – though her eyes had yet to open. With this implicit permission, he no longer aimed for any kind of subtlety. He slipped fingers into her cunt and began to rub her clit.<<br /><br />Without warning her tongue was in his mouth, and her hand was unzipping his pants. “Fuck me. Now.”<br />It was not a request.<br /><br />Don't forget to visit all the other participants of this months group post:</p><a href="http://secretlifeofaslummymummy.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">http://<wbr>secretlifeofaslummymummy.<wbr>blogspot.com/</a><br /><a href="http://100waystobeperverse.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">http://100waystobeperverse.<wbr>wordpress.com</a><br /><a href="http://hubmanshangout.com/" target="_blank">http://hubmanshangout.com/</a><br /><a href="http://www.ronjazz.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">www.ronjazz.blogspot.com</a><br /><a href="http://topaz-gemology.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">http://topaz-gemology.<wbr>blogspot.com</a><br /><a href="http://mygrayline.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Http://mygrayline.blogspot.com</a><br /><a href="http://insatiabear.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">http://insatiabear.blogspot.<wbr>com</a><br /><a href="http://cuckold-husband-bdenied.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">http://cuckold-husband-<wbr>bdenied.blogspot.com</a>The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-87579362059562081062010-06-07T21:10:00.004-05:002010-06-07T21:19:10.069-05:00May I Seduce You - Group PostHello All,<br /><br />The darling <a href="http://yourerrantwife.blogspot.com/?zx=a240dac0361e1091">Kimberly</a> has asked that I take on the group post for June and July, as she will be away for a good portion of it.<br /><br />I don't have a list for all of you, so please email me at: peacocksandbutterflies@gmail.com if you want in!<br /><br />Email me by Friday at noon with suggestions for topics and to let me know if you want to be included. I will send out the topic for the post that evening...<br /><br />Looking forward to hearing from you!<br /><br />xoxo<br /><br />Don't know what I'm talking about? Here are some <a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/search/label/may%20I%20seduce%20you%3F">group posts</a> from the past...<br /><br /><a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2010/02/day.html">The Day</a><br /><a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2009/12/twinkling-heat.html">Twinkling Heat</a><br /><a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2009/11/curve-of-his.html">The Curve of His...</a><br /><a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2009/10/caught-looking.html">Caught</a><br /><a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2009/05/fantasy-fuck-sex-with-stranger.html">Fantasy Fuck</a>The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-15368957722325775392010-06-06T16:28:00.002-05:002010-06-07T21:05:13.384-05:00Gerard Butler and Little Black PantiesHas anyone seen this movie? I was relatively meh about it. Far too predictable for my taste, and the few funny moments didn't outweigh the mediocrity of it.<br /><br />However, it did have one semi-amusing scene that highlighted the <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/">sex toy</a> that the darling Nicole of <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com%20%20/">Adultsextoys.com</a> sent me: the <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/vibrators/-Berman-Astrea-Remote-Control-Vibrating-Brief_SE9705-10"><span class="crumblehead large">Berman Astrea Remote Control Vibrating Brief</span></a>.<br /><br /><object width="500" height="405"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/_PSKL4c-zK4&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&border=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/_PSKL4c-zK4&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&border=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="400" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br />At first I was going to make a smart ass comment about her wearing <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/vibrators/-Berman-Astrea-Remote-Control-Vibrating-Brief_SE9705-10">black panties </a>under a white dress- but then I realized that aside from it possibly just being a risque, fun thing to do - it was actually unintentional. So - moving on...<br /><br />What did I think of this product?<br /><br />Well first of all - let me say that there's no way that the men at that table wouldn't have heard the <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/">adult toy</a> when it was on. It's is loud. So I can't really get on board with any advertising that implies that you can wear it out for some "subtle" or "discreet" stimulation. <span style="font-style: italic;">Not</span> discreet by any stretch.<br /><br />The panties themselves are relatively teeny - which is OK for some. And they're stretchy too - the site says that they would be comfortable for up to a women's size 10. I definitely wouldn't wear these for comfort if you're any larger than that. But who's wearing them for that anyhow, right?<br /><br />Here are the website deets for this <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/">sex toy</a>:<br /><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" ><span class="detailbold med">Berman Astrea Remote Control Vibrating Brief Details:</span><br />Remote control vibrating brief provides discreet hands-free stimulation. Designed in beautiful stretch lace, comfortable and sexy. Mini-remote stimulator is contoured, compact, and removable. Remote control has a 12 foot range, and allows you to receive hands-free stimulation. Stretch lace is comfortable, machine-washable, and will fit up to a women's size 10. Part of the Berman Center Intimate Accessories line. Products designed for women, by women to give you and your partner exactly what you need to optimize your sex life.<br /><strong>Category:</strong><img src="http://www.adultsextoys.com/images/spacer.gif" alt="" border="0" width="12" /><a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/erotic-clothing-sexy-panties" class="detail small">Sexy Panties</a><br /><strong>For Body Part:</strong><img src="http://www.adultsextoys.com/images/spacer.gif" alt="" border="0" width="12" /><a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/sextoys/start/category_new.html?tf=SE9705-10%7CCBODY%7CClitoris&wa=erotic-clothing-sexy-panties">Clitoris</a><img src="http://www.adultsextoys.com/images/spacer.gif" alt="" border="0" width="12" /><br /><strong>Color:</strong><img src="http://www.adultsextoys.com/images/spacer.gif" alt="" border="0" width="12" /><a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/sextoys/start/category_new.html?tf=SE9705-10%7Cccolor&wa=erotic-clothing-sexy-panties">Black</a><br /><strong>Vibration:</strong><img src="http://www.adultsextoys.com/images/spacer.gif" alt="" border="0" width="12" /><a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/sextoys/start/category_new.html?tf=SE9705-10%7CVIBE%7CHi-Tech,%20Vibrates,%20Wireless&wa=erotic-clothing-sexy-panties">Hi-tech, Vibrates, Wireless</a><img src="http://www.adultsextoys.com/images/spacer.gif" alt="" border="0" width="12" /></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Price:</span> $68.15</span><br /><br />So what did I think of this <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/">adult toy</a>? (<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Gotta love the instructions to use these phrases and links...that's the last one, I promise!</span></span>)<br /><br />Well, as mentioned above- it's loud, and the panties are not going to be something that I pull out unless I'm in a dire laundry emergency.<br /><br />I also had to do quite a bit of adjusting to make the vibrator hit my clit in the right spot. And I certainly had to contort a bit and hold the position to make sure it stayed there. Once it was on, it was pretty nice though. Subtle, but still good.<br /><br />The remote is more subtle than what you saw in the clip though. It's small and black - not nearly as obnoxious as what they used in the film. It has one speed, and again - it's relatively low intensity.<br /><br />It does come with a delightful lavender coloured bag to hold it all, so it's a pretty present if you're so inclined to give it to a girlfriend.<br /><br />But overall? Meh. Much like the movie - I experienced it once, and don't really need to go back to it.<br /><br />Duchess rating: 2 stars out of 5.<br /><br />Why not check out Nicole on <a href="http://twitter.com/AdultSexToysX">Twitter</a> and <a href="http://facebook.com/">Facebook</a>? 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I do love Nancy - I want to take her out shopping and have indecent girly sleep-overs with her.<br /><br />This adorable <a href="http://www.pinkcherry.com/Coquette-Black-Mesh-Dress-with-Blue-Bows-One-Size/productinfo/CQ.1931.BLK-BLU.OS/">chemise</a> is yet another from the Coquette line - they may be my new favourite outfitters. I have to confess, I do love the little blue bows. They add a nice splash of colour to the whole thing.<br /><br />And this chemise? Super comfortable. You could actually sleep in this one with no problem at all - assuming that you don't have an audience who insists on tearing it off of you. Personally, I would want to get down and dirty still wearing it - that's the beauty of these things, isn't it? You can keep it on and still provide easy access.<br /><br />This is one of those "one-size" chemises, and for me it fit fine. But again, it's mesh - so it won't hide all your sins. And I would choose any cute little panties to wear beneath it judiciously, another pair of black mesh to match would probably be the way to go.<br /><br />My only complaint about this is that I had a hard time sorting out the breast adjustment (ah the joys of being a woman...). It didn't provide a lot of support, and while lack of coverage could be considered sexy, in this case I just found it to be a touch awkward.<br /><br />I did love how it seemed to emphasize my ass though - the side slits and bows seemed placed just right for admiration of my legs and rear. I also think you would also do well wearing some lace stay-ups in this...<br /><br />The chemise is ridiculously low-priced at $29.99, so I really see no reason to not buy it if you're in the market while shopping around for your other <a href="http://www.pinkcherry.ca/">adult toy</a> needs.<br /><br />Overall? Super comfy, cute and shows off all the right things.<br />Duchess rating: 4 out of 5 stars.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.pinkcherry.com/default-us.asp"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 305px; height: 84px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSJHCgtc1IVLieKpsirlVj0mVZjLPrAz6EepFNXoI6Vc1kTWFPon8hAJnLcHAuESp4fe9CuyiLiI2O8XnPuMAzGJcfow8vAsaxQNy9MIC5R020ixTxK4yQa0CF_ycIfwAoSArYWc58OC8/s320/pinkcherry+logo.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5471726531705760370" border="0" /></a>The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-48214636304019534792010-05-04T18:40:00.003-05:002010-05-04T19:08:31.358-05:00Fetish and Cliche<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpWvBgxRi0NM0hVVWwyF4d3CZojx2vHD7FEXG2AkOYw70tCXAsh-o-q937pZKry7fwmZy_H99nnYJRynqT0IQx4fclcl64aV8B8NNGhm8I_LubCWoo1OtceVlkkacttDS7QW5yux65UU0/s1600/fetish.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpWvBgxRi0NM0hVVWwyF4d3CZojx2vHD7FEXG2AkOYw70tCXAsh-o-q937pZKry7fwmZy_H99nnYJRynqT0IQx4fclcl64aV8B8NNGhm8I_LubCWoo1OtceVlkkacttDS7QW5yux65UU0/s320/fetish.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5467571100275484370" border="0" /></a><br />Being a sex blogger exposed and introduces you to a vast array of lifestyles - some to be embraced with open arms, some to be intrigued with and some to avoid at all costs. It all depends on one's tastes and proclivities. The most beautiful thing I've found since I began this journey is how wonderfully accepting, nurturing and empowering this community is. I've met some people, both in person and on-screen that have literally changed my entire outlook on life.<br /><br />And of course, not one of the people that I've gotten to know a bit better have failed to surprise me on closer inspection. What we portray online is a far cry from what we are in actuality. The sexual personas are only a certain facet of our beings. I know this.<br /><br />So I must confess, the other day I was guilty of making some gross assumptions and generalizations in my head, and I deserve to be thoroughly punished for it. I refer of course to the <a href="http://fetlife.com/">Fetlife</a> meet up that I "observed." Observed but didn't engage in. I spent $1.34 for a tea at <a href="http://www.timhortons.com/">Timmie's</a> and sat a few tables away from the action. Close enough to observe, and hear a bit - but still removed and relatively unobtrusive.<br /><br />I had recently joined Fetlife and was soon approached by a very polite man-child. We exchanged messages that day and he mentioned that there was to be a casual coffee that evening. I was surprised by the location, as well as how early it was scheduled for. Perhaps to give people the opportunity to hook up and spend an enjoyable several hours together afterwards? There was only one way to find out.<br /><br />Of course, being female my first dilemma of course was: what do I wear? If this get together was at a darkly lit lounge I probably would have debated less - but a fluorescent coffee shop?? I chose the subtly sexy - a bustier with velvet jacket, tight jeans and stiletto boots.<br /><br />I was ridiculous.<br /><br />I saw people in fleeces and t-shirts and in clothes that I wear when sitting at home on my couch.<br /><br />But let's go back a bit. I walked in and saw a large group of people sitting on one side of the place. In case no one has been in a Tim Horton's - they're not large. It was pretty obvious that this was the group. They all looked so...normal, with a wide range of ages. I felt like a girl playing dress up in my heels, lipstick and cleavage.<br /><br />I saw the person who had invited me walk in, order, and then walk out. I was puzzled. He certainly looked like the person from the photograph...<br /><br />I burnt my tongue on my tea and wondered what to do next. I felt particularly intrusive as I would glance their way, then write furiously in my journal (<a href="http://dangerousliaisons-aurore.blogspot.com/">Aurore</a> has seen and been amused by the journal - it comes with me everywhere I go...). I was annoyed that the two giggling girls behind me were foiling my attempts at eavesdropping.<br /><br />One almost could mistake the group for an oddly located family gathering, except you could feel their anticipation as they kept glancing expectantly at the door. I felt that there should have been a "FetLife" sign posted, proclaiming that all were welcome. But I wasn't sure that all <span style="font-style: italic;">were</span> welcome. It seemed to be a very insular group - not exactly issuing a welcoming vibe.<br /><br />Ah, my inviter came back. Young looking. Possibly shy and insecure. Maybe now the party would get started? Possibly not. He sat in the least approachable corner available, surrounded by what seemed like dozens of people.<br /><br />I began to console myself with the fact that I still had the anticipation of <a href="http://www.rolluptherimtowin.com/en/index.php">rolling up the rim</a> to soothe me. Alas - "please try again."<br /><br />On that note I chose to leave. Perhaps I would have approached them if anyone in the group particularly piqued my interest, but it simply didn't appear to be my scene. Shyness? Maybe. Snobbishness? Probably.<br /><br />I laughed at myself on the way home for my own foolish assumptions about the evening. What did I expect?A bunch of goth-types making out and fondling each other in public? Women wearing PVC and stockings? Men in leather and dog collars?<br /><br />Yes to all. And I confess, I was a bit disappointed with the mundane-ness of it all. I suspect I should try the fetish ball in June. That may be a bit more likely to fulfill my ridiculously clichéd expectations.The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-1648682940673807812010-04-27T21:33:00.003-05:002010-04-27T21:42:24.980-05:00Random<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0XggqTyn2zk3fbBjfRU-6xl0I97BUstcQZouRKbZtoPvtWM-rKIqQRm5gUilXBJSqpp1YoWBqAVjQHVfhxlm0ygR6O-Tyx4L50E7WcR8B3LKRTzfv5d_rdHb69sFp8Dvf6GJfr1dR3Po/s1600/blindfolded.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0XggqTyn2zk3fbBjfRU-6xl0I97BUstcQZouRKbZtoPvtWM-rKIqQRm5gUilXBJSqpp1YoWBqAVjQHVfhxlm0ygR6O-Tyx4L50E7WcR8B3LKRTzfv5d_rdHb69sFp8Dvf6GJfr1dR3Po/s320/blindfolded.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5465013186262931378" border="0" /></a><br />Wondering what's up with me?<br /><br />Quite frankly - so am I. I feel like I'm doing both everything and nothing all at once. I am just exhausted and restless and incapable of doing something as challenging as writing a real blog post. I'm sorry my darlings.<br /><br />Here are a few tidbits to tide you over while I get my head on straight.<br /><br />- My facebook account seems to be disabled. I guess they didn't love the "persona." I resent the implication that I'm not a "real" person, but I can see where they're coming from I suppose.<br /><br />- Had an uncle call me sexy the other night. It did <span style="font-style: italic;">not</span> make me feel warm and fuzzy inside. Freaked me out really.<br /><br />- I have two boxes of products to review. Including some latex gloves and leggings. I tried to put them on when they arrived. I should have video'd it. This could turn into a humour blog instead of a sex blog with many more episodes like that.<br /><br />- I observed a Fetlife coffee the other week. I intend to post about it. I didn't actually participate. <a href="http://dangerousliaisons-aurore.blogspot.com/">Aurore</a> came just shy of calling me a loser for simply watching for a few minutes then leaving. She's probably right.<br /><br />- Been a bit down lately. I can't tell you when the last time was that I had sex, or even a decent make-out session. This blog is not making me come out of my mousiness shell like I had hoped. I don't seem to be oozing the confidence like I should...<br /><br />Will try to be more seductively fascinating soon...I owe you all...The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-27267315640294100692010-04-25T18:04:00.006-05:002010-06-07T21:06:05.010-05:00Duchess Debbie<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/adult-dvds/Debbie-Does-Dallas---Classic-DVD_CLA96009"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 306px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9jtl4y1pcEUmF2QzKxEefa8w9XyCIiBEhg69j7az-TQoVVxKGvBffOplEq-4MtOOmyuF0aIKMKn-0VRWtIocwP4lFMrOQbrD9TDAI5yh919a0-f3G0Ar-dCYOoJBhnvNL7Wy1FzZiajE/s320/200px-Debbiedoesdallas.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5464215084093793874" border="0" /></a><br />So the delicious Nicole of the <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/">Sex Toy</a> site Adultsextoys.com said she would send me some fantastic presents for my birthday, and on Friday, they all arrived.<br /><br />As those of you who are friends with me on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#%21/profile.php?id=100001007867864&ref=profile">Facebook</a> know (and if you're not friends with me - why not??) I spent my Friday evening with the seductively fantastic Ms. Bambi Woods - AKA "Debbie" of Debbie Does Dallas fame.<br /><br />It struck me as crazy that I host an erotica blog, and do <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/">sex toy</a> reviews, but had never seen this classic artifact of cinematic history. I mean it's Debbie. And she <span style="font-style: italic;">did</span> Dallas. Although, in point of fact she doesn't. She doesn't <span style="font-style: italic;">actually</span> make it to Dallas in the film - although it's implied...<br /><br />I actually found this film to be surprisingly refreshing. Porn movies to me are associated with a few formulaic factors: bad music, unrealistically tight/hairless/uplifted women and essentially no storyline.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/adult-dvds/Debbie-Does-Dallas---Classic-DVD_CLA96009">Debbie Does Dallas</a> actually was different than that. This movie did in fact have a plot. It wasn't a complex plot by any means, but there was a storyline, and mild character development.<br /><br />The plot? Debbie wins some sort of cheerleading competition and has to raise the money to get to Dallas to attend. The rest of her squad decides to raise money themselves to accompany her. They find making money to be a challenge, so they begin to sell themselves.<br /><br />What pleasantly astonished me was the bodies shown in the film. These were <span style="font-style: italic;">real</span> women's bodies. Their breasts moved and were shaped and sized like women's breasts actually do and are. They showed (OMG!) pubic hair! And the make-up? Like real women wear. It was simultaneously fascinating and grotesque. It's been so long (if ever) that I've seen women look like that on film that I was positively riveted to the screen.<br /><br />Another interesting aspect of this, dare I say, old-fashioned way of filming a porn were the camera angles. Now I'm no cinematographer, but I know it's just not the way we do things anymore. They would choose an angle - often a <span style="font-style: italic;">very</span> close up shot of a cock sliding in and out of a vagina and leave it there. This would go on for a few minutes. There was no possible way this was being faked let me tell you.<br /><br />However, I will say - there is something to be said for how we do it now. It's mildly arousing to see a thrusting member, but to me, it's more stimulating to see some facial expressions to go along with it. To be <span style="font-style: italic;">in</span> the moment with the couple. To just see genitals is a bit less personal and a touch harder to lose yourself in the fantasy.<br /><br />But overall? I have to say I'm really glad I got this. I expected it to just be really cheesy and laughable, but it was definitely more than that. Debbie herself was really beautiful, and it was refreshing to see some real women.<br /><br />One thing that did strike me about this film, is a seeming preoccupation with semen. I mean those girls <span style="font-style: italic;">really</span> milked those guys dry, and left not a drop unlicked...Makes me wonder if my men have been feeling neglected in that area...<br /><br />Now, was it a bit disturbing to see supposedly 16 year-old girls in the kind of situation that would now get most of the characters in the movie arrested? A little bit. I had to shake it off once or twice. I have heard that they re-did the film, and I do hope that they made them college cheerleaders instead.<br /><br />But aside from that - I can certainly say that this film is better than a lot of what I've seen much more recently. Most porn movies are just a series of vignettes showing increasingly kinky scenarios. This, although definitely 70's, was a cut above that. Worth checking out for sure. I would recommend adding it to your personal collection without reservation.<br /><br />Special thanks to Nicole - truly a goddess of the <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/">adult toy</a> world for sending me so many fun presents! And if you're interested in finding out about Nicole's <a href="http://www.adultsextoys.com/">adult toy</a> giveaways and deals, she told me to give a shout out to their <a href="http://twitter.com/AdultSexToysX">twitter</a> and <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Adult-Sex-Toys/113994728619519">facebook</a> pages. And since she's lovely, why wouldn't I do that for her?<br /><br />Duchess's rating: 4/5 O's.The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-19674144115542399182010-04-17T00:29:00.001-05:002010-05-04T18:31:15.178-05:00Make Me<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic4Pf283C6tn_aPqoE7GIYr5e56CXXtrk8GXKkCV7yYBTNXi-zM1kr2D1V_su9VgtSgBTqQa0qg8sUcJd6Wsu9hsUfp6_2PlnljQ7CJXAQojILA_IYyVXrud_h5GZSgj_Ld825vhAnZ50/s1600/ertoci+touch.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic4Pf283C6tn_aPqoE7GIYr5e56CXXtrk8GXKkCV7yYBTNXi-zM1kr2D1V_su9VgtSgBTqQa0qg8sUcJd6Wsu9hsUfp6_2PlnljQ7CJXAQojILA_IYyVXrud_h5GZSgj_Ld825vhAnZ50/s320/ertoci+touch.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5460922159869189506" border="0" /></a><br />It's not hard to find someone to want you. To want you briefly. Selfishly. Unthinkingly.<br /><br />And often that's fine. A temporary release. It will serve for the time.<br /><br />But really? I want something more. Something longer. Something more sustaining.<br /><br />No. I'm not talking about the big L here. I'm talking about sensuality. Seduction. The Big O even.<br /><br />I want a man to make me quiver. To make me crave him non-stop. To make me his entire focus. Even just for a night.<br /><br />A man with the eroticism, imagination and desire to care about what he does to my body.<br /><br />A man with the ability to make me writhe in animalistic passion on the bed.<br /><br />A man who'll make me grip him with lust simply by running his fingertips over my skin or his tongue over my lips.<br /><br />A man who will make me moan with unashamed volume and release.<br /><br />Is such a man out there? A man who can make me bend to his will?<br /><br />Want to check out the rest of the group? See who's "making" them?<br /><br />Spring Flower: <a href="http://agirlsgottahaveoptions.blogspot.com/">http://agirlsgottahaveoptions.blogspot.com/</a><br />Ms Scarlett: <a href="http://msscarlettletter.blogspot.com/">http://msscarlettletter.blogspot.com</a><br />Panserbjorn: <a href="http://insatiabear.blogspot.com/">http://insatiabear.blogspot.com/</a><br />Adulterous Letch: <a href="http://a6y.blogspot.com%20/">http://a6y.blogspot.com </a><br />Veronica <a href="http://anothersuburbanmom.blogspot.com/">http://anothersuburbanmom.blogspot.com</a><br />Petal: <a href="http://secretlifeofaslummymummy.blogspot.com/">http://secretlifeofaslummymummy.blogspot.com/</a><br />Topaz: <a href="http://topaz-gemology.blogspot.com/">http://topaz-gemology.blogspot.com</a><br />Bdenied:<a href="http://cuckold-husband-bdenied.blogspot.com/">http://cuckold-husband-bdenied.blogspot.com</a><br />Ronjazz: <a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.ronjazz.blogspot.com">www.ronjazz.blogspot.com</a><br />Britni: <a href="http://britisshameless.com/">http://britisshameless.com</a><br />Me: <a href="http://thesecretlifeofme2.blogspot.com/">http://thesecretlifeofme2.blogspot.com</a><br />Gray: <a href="http://mygrayline.blogspot.com/">http://mygrayline.blogspot.com</a><br /><br />And as always - our luscious hostess:<br />Kimberly: <a href="http://yourerrantwife.blogspot.com/">http://yourerrantwife.blogspot.com</a>The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-48010198424579924652010-04-16T21:41:00.003-05:002010-04-16T21:49:00.986-05:00Contest Results<!-- Facebook Badge START --><a href="http://en-gb.facebook.com/people/Duchess-Belinda-DeSade/100001007867864" title="Duchess Belinda DeSade" target="_TOP" style="font-family: "lucida grande",tahoma,verdana,arial,sans-serif; font-size: 11px; font-variant: normal; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; color: rgb(59, 89, 152); text-decoration: none;">Duchess Belinda DeSade</a><br /><a href="http://en-gb.facebook.com/people/Duchess-Belinda-DeSade/100001007867864" title="Duchess Belinda DeSade" target="_TOP"><img src="http://badge.facebook.com/badge/100001007867864.280.386332342.png" style="border: 0px none;" width="120" height="269" /></a><br /><a href="http://en-gb.facebook.com/facebook-widgets/" title="Make your own badge!" target="_TOP" style="font-family: "lucida grande",tahoma,verdana,arial,sans-serif; font-size: 11px; font-variant: normal; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; color: rgb(59, 89, 152); text-decoration: none;">Create your badge</a><br /><br />I would like to thank all you sexy people who helped me create my fabulous new facebook account. And I am also commanding all of you to friend me. You wouldn't want a Duchess to be lonely would you?<br /><br />The winners of the <a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2010/04/contest.html">contest</a>?<br /><br /><a href="http://juliettia.wordpress.com/">Julietta</a> wins the gift basket for her suggestion of "Duchess DeSade." Darling I need your address to send out the package...<br />And Asha.Marie wins a runner-up prize of an <a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/">EdenFantasys</a> gift cert for convincing me to include "Belinda" in the name.<br /><br />Honourable mention goes to <a href="http://redvinylkitty.wordpress.com/">RedVinylKitty</a> because I agree wholeheartedly that "DuchessofDoom" is in fact <span style="font-style: italic;">epic.</span> Didn't quite set the right tone though my love, so unfortunately, I couldn't use it.<br /><br />I really just did this contest on a whim as a way to unload some of my excess, and am delighted that I got so much response. It looks like <span style="font-style: italic;">only</span> 15 comments, but many people gave me several options within each comment. I love it! This was the most fun I've had on this blog in a while. I had a really hard time choosing.<br /><br />Now go friend me already!<br /><!-- Facebook Badge END -->The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-23345071911390179752010-04-14T18:17:00.001-05:002010-04-14T18:17:41.889-05:00Pleasurists...<center><img src="http://pleasurists.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/waterfall-324x450.jpg" alt="" title="waterfall" width="324" height="450" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1396" /><br /><br /><em><a href="http://scottchurch.deviantart.com/art/jealous-jealous-again-126183091">jealous, jealous again</a> by <a href="http://scottchurch.deviantart.com/">Scott Church</a></em></center></p><br /><p>Welcome to <a href="http://pleasurists.com/" title="Pleasurists adult product and sex toy reviews">Pleasurists</a>, a round-up of the adult product and <a href="http://pleasurists.com/" title="sex toy reviews">sex toy reviews</a> that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/Pleasurists">RSS Feed</a> and <a href="http://twitter.com/Pleasurists">Twitter</a>.</p><br /><p>Did you miss Pleasurists #72? <a href="http://pleasurists.com/2010/04/05/pleasurists-72/">Read it all here</a>. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #74? Be sure to read our <a href="http://pleasurists.com/guidelines/">submission guidelines</a> and then use our <a href="http://pleasurists.com/submission/">submission form</a> and submit it before Sunday April 18th at 11:59pm PDT.</p><br /><p><em>Note: No Editor’s Pick this week, but there are LOTS of contests!</em></p><br /><p><strong>Want to win some swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.</strong></p><br /><ul><br /><li><a href="http://askgarnet.com/2010/04/01/advancedbjs/">Win Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Advanced Fellatio</a> Deadline: April 15th @ Midnight Central.</li><br /><li><a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2010/04/contest.html">Contest!</a> Deadline: April 16th.</li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edencafe.com/tor-giveaway/">Tor – Giveaway!</a> Deadline: April 18th.</li><br /><li><a href="http://jamericanspice.blogspot.com/2010/03/my-pleasure-50-gift-certificate.html">MyPleasure $50 Gift Certificate Giveaway</a> Deadline: April 18th.</li><br /><li><a href="http://backseatboohoo.blogspot.com/2010/03/contest.html">Contest!</a> Deadline: April 24th @ 11:59pm.</li><br /><li><a href="http://mmafterhours.blogspot.com/2010/04/i-dare-you-giveaway.html">I Dare You… Giveaway!</a> Deadline: April 25th.</li><br /><li><a href="http://www.ophoriatoys.com/win-a-beyond-1-g-spot-vibrator/?utm_source=pleasurist&utm_medium=link&utm_campaign=beyond1Contest">Ophoria April Sweepstakes Beyond 1</a> Deadline: April 30th @ Midnight Eastern.</li><br /><li><a href="http://www.loverschoice.tv/win-horny-hot-and-wild-dice/?utm_source=pleasurist&utm_medium=link&utm_campaign=HHWContest">Lover’s Choice April Sweepstakes Horny Hot & Wild Dice</a> Deadline: April 30th @ Midnight Eastern.</li><br /><li><a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/2010/04/calling-all-hot-mamas-endulge-yourself.html">Calling All Hot Mamas!</a> Deadline: May 3rd @ 11am Central.</li><br /></ul><br /><p><strong>Looking for sexy posts other than reviews?</strong><br /><br /><a href="http://elustsexblogs.com/2010/04/elust-11/">e[lust] #11</a></p><br /><p><strong>Editor</strong><br /><br /><a href="http://femmefagette.com/">Scarlet Lotus St. Syr</a></p><br /><p>On to the reviews…</p><br /><p><strong>Vibrators</strong></p><br /><ul><br /><li><a href="http://toywithme.com/vibrators/lelo-lilly/">LELO Lily</a> by <a href="http://toywithme.com/">Toy With Me</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://danidarlingblog.com/?p=759">Bswish Bcute</a> by <a href="http://danidarlingblog.com/">Dani Darling</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/product-review-wahl-2-speed-massager-kit/">Wahl</a> by <a href="http://britisshameless.com/"> Britni TheVadgeWig</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/2010/04/g-swirl.html">G-Swirl</a> by <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/">Joan Price</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://danidarlingblog.com/?p=742">Pirate Rocket</a> by <a href="http://danidarlingblog.com/">Dani Darling</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.prettypowertools.com/2010/03/pirates-rocket-vibrator.html">Pirate Rocket</a> by <a href="http://www.prettypowertools.com/">Pretty Power Tools</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/2010/04/fairy-wands-make-turbo-magic.html">Fairy Pocket Mini</a> by <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/">Joan Price</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.heyepiphora.com/2010/04/review-fairy-mini-wireless/">Fairy Mini Wireless</a> by <a href="http://www.heyepiphora.com/">Epiphora</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://viewfromthefloor.com/fairy-mini-wand/">Fairy Mini Wand</a> by <a href="http://viewfromthefloor.com">Carrie Ann</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/">Fairy Mini Wand</a> by <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/">Joan Price</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://kinky-world.net/?p=967">Bnaughty Deluxe</a> by <a href="http://kinky-world.net/">Mistress Kay</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edencafe.com/petite-couture-cashmere/">Petite Couture Cashmere</a> by <a href="http://www.edencafe.com/">Dangerous Lilly</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edencafe.com/waver-ocean/">Waver Ocean</a> by <a href="http://www.edencafe.com/">Syd Vicious</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://viewfromthefloor.com/all-the-girlies-say-im-pretty-fly/">Fun Factory Fly</a> by <a href="http://viewfromthefloor.com/">Carrie Ann</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.nymphetaminekiss.com/2010/04/review-ann-summers-rampant-rabbit.html">Rampant Rabbit Thruster Deluxe</a> by <a href="http://www.nymphetaminekiss.com/">LivingFire</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://lusciouslily.blogspot.com/2010/04/review-bubbles.html">Bubbles</a> by <a href="http://lusciouslily.blogspot.com/">Luscious Lily</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://effinaweso.me/2010/04/masseur-by-cal-exotics/">Cal Exotics Masseur</a> by <a href="http://effinaweso.me/">EffinSara</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toy-reviews/vibrators/once-you-go-black">Evolved Bet on Black</a> by <a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/contributors/valyn/">Valynn</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.prettypowertools.com/2010/04/fukuoku-9000.html">Fukuoku 9000</a> by <a href="http://www.prettypowertools.com/">Pretty Power Tools</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.nymphetaminekiss.com/2010/03/review-ophoria-bliss-no-8-vibrator.html">Ophoria Bliss No. 8</a> by <a href="http://www.nymphetaminekiss.com/">LivingFire</a></li><br /></ul><br /><p><strong>Dildos</strong></p><br /><ul><br /><li><a href="http://funwithsammi2.blogspot.com/2010/04/everyone-needs-mistress.html">Vixen Creations Mistress</a> by <a href="http://funwithsammi2.blogspot.com/">Sammi</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.prettypowertools.com/2010/03/vibrating-mistress.html">Vixen Creations Mistress</a> by <a href="http://www.prettypowertools.com">Pretty Power Tools</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://hellosaraid.com/2010/04/06/review-jollies-thrust/">Jollies Thrust</a> by <a href="http://hellosaraid.com/">Saraid</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edencafe.com/jollies-thrust/">Jollies Thrust Video</a> by <a href="http://www.edencafe.com/">Saraid</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.heyepiphora.com/2010/04/review-beyond-3/">Ophoria Beyond 3</a> by <a href="http://www.heyepiphora.com/">Epiphora</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edencafe.com/aveline/">Aveline</a> by <a href="http://www.edencafe.com/">Tuesday</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edencafe.com/vixskin-buck/">Vixskin Buck</a> by <a href="http://www.edencafe.com/">Kaijah</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://kynkykytty.blogspot.com/2010/04/edenfantasyscom-review-wonderful-wiggly.html">Fun Factory Wanda</a> by <a href="http://kynkykytty.blogspot.com/">Kynky Kytty</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://sexorcism.blogspot.com/2010/04/chaos.html">Chaos</a> by <a href="http://sexorcism.blogspot.com/">Sexorcism</a></li><br /></ul><br /><p><strong>Anal Toys</strong></p><br /><ul><br /><li><a href="http://wantonlotus.com/2010/04/08/anal-toy-review-sidekick-1/">Sidekick 1</a> by <a href="http://wantonlotus.com/">Scarlet Lotus St. 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href="http://sextoysforladies.com/2010/04/05/product-review-megasol-eros-liquid-aqua-based-woman/">Megasol Eros</a> by <a href="http://sextoysforladies.com/">Ginger Leigh</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://jesseebeth.wordpress.com/2010/04/06/liquid-silk/">Liquid Silk</a> by <a href="http://jesseebeth.wordpress.com/">Jessie Beth</a></li><br /></ul><br /><p><strong>BDSM/Fetish</strong></p><br /><ul><br /><li><a href="http://wantonlotus.com/2010/04/09/bdsm-toy-review-electrosex-torpedo-plug-small/">Electrosex Torpedo Plug (small)</a> by <a href="http://wantonlotus.com/">Scarlet Lotus St. Syr</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://kinky-world.net/?p=1029">Bondage Bar</a> by <a href="http://kinky-world.net/">Mistress Kay</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://juliettia.wordpress.com/2010/04/10/review-clover-clamps/">Clover Clamps</a> by <a href="http://juliettia.wordpress.com/">Juliettia</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edencafe.com/kinky-cuffs-2">Kinky Cuffs</a> by <a href="http://www.edencafe.com">Mistress Kay</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toy-reviews/bdsm/time-to-try-being-a-bad-girl">Good Girl Bad Girl Wrist Cuffs</a> by <a href="http://lusciouslily.blogspot.com">Luscious Lily</a></li><br /></ul><br /><p><strong>Adult Books/Games</strong></p><br /><ul><br /><li><a href="http://kinky-world.net/?p=923">The Big Book of Sex Toys</a> by <a href="http://kinky-world.net/">Mistress Kay</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://danidarlingblog.com/?p=768">Orgasms for Two</a> by <a href="http://danidarlingblog.com">Dani Darling</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://askgarnet.com/2010/04/05/book-review-best-sex-writing-2010/">Best Sex Writing 2010</a> by <a href="http://askgarnet.com/">Garnet Joyce</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edencafe.com/kinky-bingo/">Kinky Bingo</a> by <a href="http://www.edencafe.com/">Mistress Kay</a></li><br /></ul><br /><p><strong>Adult Movies & Porn</strong></p><br /><ul><br /><li><a href="http://heartbreaknympho.com/2010/04/06/review-midoris-expert-guide-to-sensual-bondage/">Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage</a> by <a href="http://heartbreaknympho.com/">Wilhelmina Wang</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://mmafterhours.blogspot.com/2010/04/good-releasings-mandy-candy-dvd-review.html">Mandy Candy</a> by <a href="http://mmafterhours.blogspot.com">Missy</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://dirtysexythoughts.wordpress.com/2010/04/11/review-reel-queer-productions-seven-minutes-in-heaven-coming-out/">Seven Minutes In Heaven: Coming Out</a> by <a href="http://dirtysexythoughts.wordpress.com/">Angel deSanguine</a></li><br /></ul><br /><p><strong>Lingerie</strong></p><br /><ul><br /><li><a href="http://kinky-world.net/?p=1019">Luxurious Garterbelt and Bra</a> by <a href="http://kinky-world.net/">Mistress Kay</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/2010/04/make-my-cincher-skirt-oh-and-double.html">Bra and Cincher 3 Piece Set</a> by <a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/">True Pleasures</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://andeatingit2.com/2010/04/08/hnt-bondara-birthday-blue/">Bondara Purple Nights Basque</a> by <a href="http://andeatingit2.com/">Joanna Cake</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toy-reviews/sexy-lingerie/a-red-hot-gift-for-you-and-your-lover">Coquette Crotchless G-string Panties</a> by <a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/contributors/valyn/">Valynn</a></li><br /></ul><br /><p><strong>Miscellaneous</strong></p><br /><ul><br /><li><a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/2010/04/twinkle-twinkle-little-nip-review-of.html">Pink and Clear Nipple Bindi</a> by <a href="http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/">True Pleasures</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://darlingdove.blogspot.com/2010/04/smartballs-teneo-duo.html">Smartballs Teneo Duo</a> by <a href="http://darlingdove.blogspot.com/">Darling Dove</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://longingsend.wordpress.com/2010/04/08/product-review-sportsheets-dildo-anchor-pads/">Sportsheets Dildo Anchor Pads</a> by <a href="http://longingsend.wordpress.com/">mina</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toy-reviews/vibrators/a-little-too-mini">Fairy Mini Attachment</a> by <a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/contributors/valyn/">Valynn</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.prettypowertools.com/2010/03/incoqnito-droplet-necklace.html">Incoqnito Droplet Necklace</a> by <a href="http://www.prettypowertools.com/">Pretty Power Tools</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/2010/04/review-fascinator-throe-from-liberator/">Liberator Fascinator Throe</a> by <a href="http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/">Cooper</a></li><br /><li><a href="http://www.heyepiphora.com/2010/04/review-cherry-scented-vibro-dong/">Cherry-Scented Vibro Dong</a> by <a href="http://www.heyepiphora.com/">Epiphora</a></li><br /></ul><br /><p><center><a href="http://pleasurists.com/" title="Pleasurists adult product review round-up"><img src="http://pleasurists.com/banner.jpg" alt="Pleasurists adult product review round-up banner" border=0 /></a></center>The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-41401005511529738472010-04-11T17:24:00.004-05:002010-04-11T17:45:55.979-05:00Twinkle and SlickThis is an entirely overdue post, and I would like to thank the kind folks over at <a href="http://www.durex.com/en-CA/Pages/default.aspx">Durex</a> for their patience with me. Did you know they offered more than just condoms? Me neither!<br /><br />They were kind enough to send me a few samples from their pick & licks line as well as a "Twinkle." Sadly, at the time I had someone all lined up to try them out on - but that fell through, and so I'm giving a bit more of a theoretical promotion/review instead.<br /><br />First of all: the <a href="http://shop.durex.com/en-gb/Pages/ShopHome.aspx?action=productdetails&productcode=10042414">Twinkle</a>...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXk9qGFdegl17aVYLfqiEWRLf3a-f3LPBpopLLjnOd91H91DdVI1r6b3Hef_XRJXsBu22so0Zpb-52UwArKt0BU3M-pI6qL4O3PJShuH01-SPuuBWcREsc9kRhAC7Q_WSIIRu_CQ2LwfM/s1600/twinkle.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 260px; height: 195px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXk9qGFdegl17aVYLfqiEWRLf3a-f3LPBpopLLjnOd91H91DdVI1r6b3Hef_XRJXsBu22so0Zpb-52UwArKt0BU3M-pI6qL4O3PJShuH01-SPuuBWcREsc9kRhAC7Q_WSIIRu_CQ2LwfM/s320/twinkle.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5459014881688294642" border="0" /></a><br />A cock ring that vibrates for up to 20 minutes. How fun is that?! Can be worn with a condom, can be turned off and on. Kind of cool.<br /><br />I imagine this is the sort of thing that can be enjoyed either alone, or with a partner. Not having a cock myself, I'm afraid I wouldn't know. Hmmm...perhaps one could slip it onto a dildo and use it? Must try that...<br />Or even better, maybe I should offer to ship it off to one of my lovely readers in my contest from my <a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2010/04/contest.html">last post</a>...<br /><br /><br />Then the fun came! They sent me a whole menu of items to choose from in their "pick & licks" line. A range of flavoured & textured & different sized condoms, as well as some lubes and massage oils. It was just like Christmas!<br /><br />So I chose a range of each type of thing, and settled on a strawberry flavour. The flavour options were positively delicious: cherry, pina colada, orange, banana, strawberry and apple.<br /><br />Now what to do with condoms when one is briefly sans partner? Well, this assignment of course forced me to use my imagination. I practiced my technique of putting a condom on a cock with my mouth on a variety of toys. Oh, and once those toys were properly sheathed? Well who needs lube? Off I went for some vibrating fun!<br /><br />Now I do still have some condoms left over - so all I need now is someone to take advantage of them with me. Any takers?The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-47586547409682349002010-04-09T21:02:00.004-05:002010-04-09T21:10:15.028-05:00Contest!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyCB1Tu7EtjPrZ_R3FajGeY2nkiTCYs753ksD20ri-1bB7ENEIEjNKftucEzvrLOC5huMHmKIuL4zWxDsXcrByzRm5wilQ4VRoWUp4nYOU-nYHTZlT4Q-4dAuu5eITBFHL76cPSDNCbnU/s1600/lower+body+woman.png"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 234px; height: 250px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyCB1Tu7EtjPrZ_R3FajGeY2nkiTCYs753ksD20ri-1bB7ENEIEjNKftucEzvrLOC5huMHmKIuL4zWxDsXcrByzRm5wilQ4VRoWUp4nYOU-nYHTZlT4Q-4dAuu5eITBFHL76cPSDNCbnU/s400/lower+body+woman.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458324984807784434" border="0" /></a><br />So I've noticed that quite a few of you have facebook accounts for your online personas, so I thought I would do the same in order to better stalk you all.<br />Unfortunately, "The Duchess" or "Sexy Duchess" will not make it past the facebook police.<br /><br />It seems I need an actual name.<br />I've always thought that my bar/fake name would be "Belinda" - so I considered going with that - but "Belinda Duchess"...well let's face it. That's a stupid name.<br /><br />I've been thinking about doing a contest on here for a while. I have a lot of stuff that I want to give away - books, DVDs, lotions, toys that I haven't actually used etc. So I think this will be the vehicle for the contest.<br /><br />Whomever chooses the name for me that I actually use will win a whole pack of stuff from me.<br />I'd like "Duchess" to be in there somewhere please. Leave it in the comments, twitter message me, email me - whatever you'd like...<br /><br />So: contest begins now, and ends next Friday, April 16.The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-68982843156866852102010-04-07T23:11:00.000-05:002010-04-07T23:11:00.496-05:00Bustier...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYFEQr7w8uBmTKWrL-CE7ClM7SIlyPwi-aupixR1W2ENmUIgHle8z1dtwuHzri1lzK6EBmQGJir70-O7Gx89q6d9ks9ANqtJG6ihiCWtPypeuh8K5IMGxbX6ahW6gjH3wIt64bzU2WTe8/s1600/Bustier.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 178px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYFEQr7w8uBmTKWrL-CE7ClM7SIlyPwi-aupixR1W2ENmUIgHle8z1dtwuHzri1lzK6EBmQGJir70-O7Gx89q6d9ks9ANqtJG6ihiCWtPypeuh8K5IMGxbX6ahW6gjH3wIt64bzU2WTe8/s320/Bustier.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456130330226369234" border="0" /></a><br />One of my prouder moments- that I can fit into this bustier again with room to spare. I missed it so...The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231723224660410687.post-75814374184751134352010-04-05T19:45:00.007-05:002010-04-05T20:54:24.580-05:00Prolific II<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinfPkoZDcumkGbJmEDE1dR15MLnKrbpaMmOltZ8SSk8TbT9yZbosJxDxYUBCUUtju477euPciSgSWTJ70D7Nt4V2EuGAiYvVSTujrsyvZHUjGNKtVQ62A2Vo94gOE8fuBlf4ZC1JXidQ0/s1600/seducative.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinfPkoZDcumkGbJmEDE1dR15MLnKrbpaMmOltZ8SSk8TbT9yZbosJxDxYUBCUUtju477euPciSgSWTJ70D7Nt4V2EuGAiYvVSTujrsyvZHUjGNKtVQ62A2Vo94gOE8fuBlf4ZC1JXidQ0/s320/seducative.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456834772270196322" border="0" /></a><br />Continued from <a href="http://theduchessissexy.blogspot.com/2009/12/prolific.html">this post</a>...<br /><br />She sat within (very) clear view of the only decent-looking men in the room, revealing an indecent amount of cleavage and heels. She felt she needed a drink after the night she'd just had, so she stopped at the local pub on her way home.<br /><br />After a few minutes of negotiation, she settled on a Cosmo with the waitress. Perhaps she would channel her inner Samantha with it, though in actuality she was craving the tea that she had left in her car from her just-aborted coffee date. However tea wasn't going to help her set the proper tone and get her head in the game.<br /><br />Hockey on one side of her, European football on the other, she felt (as usual) painfully out of place. Though more than one she noticed one of the men at the other table glancing at her. He looked vaguely familiar - perhaps from an avatar photo on one of the plethora of websites she frequented.<br /><br />She saw two old-school video games to her right - "Golden Tees" and "Big Buck Hunter." Very male. And more than a little hilarious with a pixellated moose shaking his antlers flirtatiously at her every few minutes. Possibly the most action she could expect to receive that night.<br /><br />Why is it that all spots bars have such a love for bad 80's music? "<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ig0NVMVdmoA">Out of Touch</a>" blared from the speakers. She was beginning to take it as a personal attack. <span style="font-style: italic;">Was</span> she out of touch? What was she <span style="font-style: italic;">doing</span> there anyhow?<br /><br />She kept adjusting the jacket she wore over her bustier - surreptitiously showing more cleavage without trying to seem too obvious about it. Again, she felt like a fraud - who was she to think that she was the kind of woman who could transform herself into a seductress? The kind of women to compel a man to approach her through sheer force of will?<br /><br />She felt like a girl merely play-acting. Aspiring to womanhood. Painfully transparent to even the most casual of onlookers.<br /><br />She felt a ridiculous urge to keep track of the times the men at the other table glanced her way. Surely it had to happen by accident or pure happenstance occasionally. How many glances equated to an intentional "checking out"? Who could she ask? She didn't exactly advertise to her friends that she slutted herself up and frequented lounges as a social experiment.<br /><br />An experiment to what end precisely? What did she hope to learn or accomplish? How to be sexy? How to find a man? She didn't need anyone to tell her that this wasn't really the optimal strategy for such an endeavour.<br /><br />She suddenly remembered an idiotic reality show that she saw once training women on how to "date." Apparently it was an "alluring" move to delicately rub one's collarbone so...oh! One of the men at the other table <span style="font-style: italic;">did</span> glance her way. Fascinating.<br /><br />What makes a woman sexy? She strongly suspected that it almost entirely rested on confidence. A trait that she clearly did not possess in spades. She was also beginning to suspect that the glances in her direction were more likely focusing on the TV behind her.<br /><br />"<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RIZdjT1472Y">Human</a>" now blaring...<br /><br />Do men <span style="font-style: italic;">really</span> care that much about breasts and cleavage, or is that just an urban legend? She imagined Freud would have a lot to say about it. Perhaps as a reflection of man's desire to <a href="http://www.newworldencyclopedia.org/entry/S%C3%A1ndor_Ferenczi">return to the womb</a>?<br /><br />She rarely drank and found a few sips of her Cosmo had an affect. Not intoxicating yet, but certainly resulting in a feeling of...something. She wondered if it was horniness. A word she abhored, but under the circumstances it seemed rather apt.<br /><br />Two young pups walked by, thoroughly dampening her heat. She found younger men completely unappealing. She preferred to be the neurotic one in a relationship, and younger men far too frequently claimed that role for themselves.<br /><br />She wondered suddenly if the men found her pitiable. Not mysterious and intriguing because she sat alone writing, but rather pathetic and sad. Or maybe she was simply projecting her own insecurities onto them. Probably. But the doubt lingered, shaking her already tenuous grip on confidence and allure.<br /><br />It was a neighbourhood pub, across from the last place she tried. Mores groups of the right kind of men came in than last time. Comforting. She may be able to try this place again. She felt safe close to hope - like she knew what to expect.<br /><br />Spice Girls: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GpPyBXMxeb0">Stop</a><br /><br />The drink was meant to be a prop, but she found it was rapidly being depleted. Mysterious. Fortunate that she could walk home if need be.<br /><br />She found herself paying more and more attention to the hockey game. Edmonton was playing Phoenix. Surely this was a sign that it was time to go. She'd been there nearly an hour - she felt she'd taken all she could from the experience. And at $8.00 a martini, she felt she'd made her contribution. Until next time...The Duchesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15634462097470914166noreply@blogger.com2