So I am 33 and single. I haven't had sex in 11 months, and haven't had it in a committed relationship in ...well years.
So you know how all the dating sites have 3 categories? "Dating" "Relationship" and "Booty Call" or some such equivalent?
Well I've been dipping my toes in the first two categories off and on for a few years now. I don't take it too seriously, but I haven't met with much success on any of the sites I've tried.
So for kicks this weekend I signed up for category 3. You know, the "intimate encounters" or whatever section...
In 5 minutes I got as much response as I generally get in a few months in the other categories.
I sign in and I can easily have about 5 or 6 conversations going with different men within about 10 minutes. I think they smell fresh meat or something.
So this blog? This will be archiving all the action I get on there. Not necessarily that kind of action. But who I meet. Who I even just chat with. And yes, perhaps eventually who I have sex with.
Have I mentioned, 11 months??
Now before anyone thinks that I'm going to cause myself some sort of psychological damage, don't worry. I've given myself all the speeches already.
This is just a non-emotional way to get myself back out there. Maybe I'll have sex, maybe I won't. But these men have seen photos of me, and they've been effusively complimentary. I don't have any nude shots up. Since I'm not model thin, I don't feel confident enough to do so. Yet.
Now, I do have another blog. Some of you may recognize me from there. I'm cool with that if you do. But since my other place is pretty fluffy and G-rated, and to be honest, pretty available for the whole world to find - I thought I would start this new one.
So there's my intro. This may be a brief experiment. But I'm hoping it helps me get my sexy back and start me back on my way to confidence and flirtiness.
Heidi
1 day ago
2 comments:
11 months? Holy shit. Yeah, go get some, baby...
I like the idea of chronicling your experiences. Should be a great blog. In fact, push yourself beyond what you might normally do so that we get great content. Yeah, I know, I'm thinking of myself and my own entertainment, but it'll be good for you too. Anyway, sounds like that's what you plan to do anyway. Good luck and have fun...
I swear I could have written this post, except substitute 11 months with 9.
I look forward to catching up on your exploits.
Good luck!
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